YOU SCREWED UP YOUR CASE BECAUSE YOU COULDN'T KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT?

https://buttecountyfamilylawlawyer.blogspot.com/

https://buttecountychicofamilylawattorney.blogspot.com/

Both sites on family law blogging by attorney.....you should read it especially if you have been involved in having either inappropriate conduct accusations, pornography, illegal criminal actions, arrests for crimes, seizure of animals, domestic violence, CPS accusations,inappropriate conduct with children, or any other crime listed in any state? (Attorney does criminal law cases and is very aware of what can be illegal, especially when clients haven't even tried to hide or hide anything they have done...plus fact that attorney has several very talented computer experts, we can likely cover nearly any computer involved issue out there.......especially if it is involving such sites as Facebook or improper texting, fake texting and the like.......

 It is exceptionally easy these days to screw oneself over, simply by doing any of the above, OR--posting idiotic things on Facebook (no one should be airing their dirty laundry on Facebook and with AI (aritifical intelligence) the government is simply using Facebook as an evidence gathering tool for most of America, BECAUSE you put your junk out there like a moron???  If you don't believe me you don't have to; it's been the case since Facebook was invented.

 Not to mention all the other stupid sites out there that simply harvest all your personal information? Not many young people worry about AI but they should. Most people do not realize the danger of AI and are too damn lazy to care. Social media is not a good thing, regardless of what most people think.  It is almost like a plague just waiting to ruin your case.  I have a lot of legal experience with cases that prove my point, believe me. There is almost no privacy these days and if you are on Facebook, forget it, it's basically too late even if you erase your data. 

BUTTE COUNTY FAMILY LAW LAWYER---ANOTHER FAMILY LAW SITE BY ATTORNEY.....

https://buttecountyfamilylawlawyer.blogspot.com/

(just one of another sites done by attorney with different information on it..)

There are so many issues within family law that it is fairly difficult to talk about all of it on

one site.   

DUE TO COVID, RATHER THAN REDUCE HOURS, ATTORNEY HAS MADE

THE HOURS EXTENDED DUE TO THE DIFFICULTIES 

PEOPLE ARE HAVING WITH THE COURT SYSTEM....................

Very few attorneys spend time writing about family law issues in much detail...but I do....

 Clients who are willing to read a little more to find out about what has worked and has not worked for other people, may be surprised to find out that such information could be potentially valuable, and it didn't cost you anything to read such data?

After seeing so many bad cases over the years, and we do mean a LOT of bad cases, it becomes obvious that much of family law (the actual "law") is not that helpful to a lot of people in their cases, and many litigants simply don't understand why their cases fail?

Attorney herein studies family law cases in an effort to find out what has and what has not worked, but mainly attorney knows in practical terms, how to guide a losing case into more of a winning case. Most of attorney's clients come in with losing cases, to be frank.  Almost none of the cases are even close to winning anything.  And sometimes the case outcome was not due to the fault of the "client" at all !!!

Attorney is pretty good at fixing bad cases as long as the client him/herself, was not really at fault, but got blamed for things that produced errant results. BUT even where a client might have been at fault a long time ago, if facts have changed, then there is a good chance it is fixable if attorney works on the case.

Some of attorney's best and worst (worst meaning they were done improperly by others) cases have transpired out of sheer determination and staying with the case. Very few attorneys like to work like this because it takes far more effort.  Attorney herein enjoys working on extremely challenging cases and is known to have the bulldog spirit. This is proven by the many cases won in the past. Attorney may be able to help you with your case., with COVID, attorney is willing to talk to clients and new inquiries from 7am to 7pm ......consultation is free!!!

COVID IS NO BARRIER--ATTORNEY CAN SPEAK WITH JUST ABOUT ANYONE--CALL TODAY!

** YES.....consultation...it's free! **

:)

 

Attorney is very friendly and down to earth+ an

 affordable attorney with winning track record!

PS this is one of attorney's favorite rock song lists https://youtu.be/mh_1ET6OXR8

Because of "COVID" and there being almost nothing we can see, do, or attend, at

least I feel it's only fair that we be able to share ordinary things!!

I am sick and tired of COVID like everyone else, but it's not

going away any time soon...

JUST FOR FUN, IT'S SUNDAY AND WE WANT TO LAUGH.........NOT CRY!!!!!!

Is Your Problem Listed Below?

Do You Need Help with Any of these Situations Below:   

Attorney has experience in all of these situations and far more

    

 Call attorney today 530.359.8810

 Winning Your DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HEARING

Modification of  Spousal  Support 

Motions and hearings; Changing Visitation for CAUSE

Spousal Support--Temporary vs. Long Term..

They are VERY Different!!!!

Modification of Orders--factual basis

Fixing Improper Orders--legal basis

Reconsideration (strict time limit and rules)

Set Aside of Errant Orders or Judgments

Mediation Issues and understanding how it works
How to Get Prepared!

Actual abuse issues, Domestic violence

Fake domestic violence, and how to approach

Fake spousal abuse, and what to do

Real spousal abuse, but you never reported it?

Using Facebook-- and how it can harm you

How Social Media Can Backfire in YOUR face?!

There is much case law on this...

             

You Fight Online by Texting too much? Could it Come back to Haunt You?

the answer my friend--is a BIG Y-E-S !!!!!

Bragging and Partying Online Posting, Causes Less Time with Kids

You Left Kids alone in the Car

You Partied all Night and came Home Wasted and NOW

he has a video of that?!

Supervised Visitation as a Penalty--- and You are Going Broke

You Never Had Legal Help or an Attorney

Child Support Arrears are very high

You signed a document and never understood what it actually meant

Kicked out of House by Ex who Lied in Court?

YOU WERE ACTING LIKE A FOOL AND NEVER FILED YOUR DV TRO

AND NOW THE OTHER PARENT 

FILED ONE ON Y-O-U????

            If you have the issues above, even if just one, call attorney ASAP

                                              before it's too late to fix your case!!

SOCIAL MEDIA WARNING..DON'T CUT YOUR OWN THROAT

Tsk, tsk, tsk.........you will have been warned if you read this, BUT it might be too late because you had not read it, and someone already saved what you wrote for posterity OR OTOH, saved it to use AGAINST YOU IN COURT???  (my website has almost 200 different posts on various subjects that relate or could relate to family law; see far right hand side of site and scroll down; it goes back to 2014 but attorney has been on blogs since 2006)         

                             NOW DON'T TELL ATTORNEY THIS ISN'T FUNNY.. RIGHT????

We all need some laughs now and then...especially before you decide to engage in critical thinking about how your case will or should be handled, and why you should not lose...now remember, you are not the attorney. You are the Petitioner or Respondent. 

However attorney is not an actual litigant, she is only the "attorney"--but the attorney has many, many years of experience in watching and determining how clients will act under pressure. This is not to second guess anyone, but to carve out the best path for the case. The ability to learn, accept change and go with the flow is helpful, and so is laughter.

 With Covid being here to stay, unfortunately, we have had to

 make jokes about a lot of things--if we did not do so, 

it's likely most clients will end up giving up when they didn't need to give up???

**Attorney can post almost anything because--- attorney is not the LITIGANT--we all know that Covid has changed just about everything as we knew it???** 

 You are not the attorney and must carefully not post, send,put online,or via email or Instagram, anything that could be used against YOU--

because it will be used against YOU by your ex--mark my words....that is why

we specifically warn people--- you need to shut up and stop posting and sending things that will be used against you. 

Common sense!!!!! Do not try and get attention, you don't need 

that right now. If you have no common sense, then start NOW and stop being your 

own worst enemy. Facebook is the #1 example of how clients make idiots of themselves.

STOP posting on there. STOP broadcasting crap that doesn't need to be said.

Facebook is one of the worst inventions ever devised--- it takes human

weaknesses and amplifies it. No one "needs" Facebook. It is categorically either

an advertising medium, a political platform, or you have been beguiled into

believing you NEED it.  No one NEEDS it. Just because Facebook has made

likely billions off of dumb people doesn't mean you have to join them?!!

SO HERE IS WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN YOU ARE ONE OF THE PARENTS.....

As we all know, the number one culprit is usually facebook or Instagram or whatever new social media crap site is out there to tell people your business when you should not need to broadcast it in the FIRST place??? BE SUPER SUPER CAREFUL NEVER TO SEND PEOPLE THINGS ON YOUR PHONE THAT WILL BE THEN GIVEN TO THE OPPOSING SIDE.  THIS IS A KEY RULE. SHUT UP AND DO NOT BROADCAST Y0UR DIRTY LAUNDRY!!!!!! 

DO NOT POST IT ANYWHERE, VIA EMAIL, SKYPE, FACETIME, FACEBOOK, ANYTHING ONLINE- NONE, ZERO, NIP.  NOTHING SHOULD BE SENT OUT VIA TEXT, EMAIL OR POSTED ANYWHERE.

Obvious things never to do, include posting of imbibing alcohol, especially in a contest (whether in a bar or otherwise), engaging in stripping off clothes (regardless of where), driving drunk and bragging about it, harming your kids (people filmed you doing it), denigrating the x or current spouse online, or even on video, showing how you set up secret illegal hidden cameras (this is not a joke), buying illegal drugs, then bragging about that, videos of any sexcapades (whether legal or not), winning a contest for drinking too much, proof that you were stealing, proof that you take illegal drugs from someone else's prescriptions, any proof of illegal or illicit conduct, any proof of harm to another person or an animal God forbid, any proof you gave your own kids or other children alcohol or illegal substances, to force them into sleeping?  This is not an exhaustive list but attorney has seen many of these things happen in bad cases.         

Because these days, people think everything should be on Facebook, and let's face it, there is very little privacy left because kids are raised on cell phones, over use of computers, and they learn to quickly denigrate others by copying their parents and friends?

IF this sounds like you, it's best to stop now before it's too late, before you talk too much about whatever, and before you ruin your own case because you aired your dirty laundry?

Where you are physically (usually shown by the location data on your phone) will clearly out you if you say differently in court documents than what the phone records show?

            Actual case:  One parent was apparently having an affair, and the other parent (the client) did not know about it. BUT because they shared some type of program that can give all the parties the text messages, messaging, and etc. of each other, the client accidentally just happened to find the sex related texting between the spouse and the boyfriend????  Well,  do you think that caused the end of the marriage?  Of course it did. It then also led to a DV TRO because of finding out? Actually I had at least three of these cases which involved DV TROs.....

                The marriage was likely damaged way before this happened, but who in the world wants to find out such a thing because it's available???
                 I am sure some people will agree that such availability for spying is great---- maybe in this case it was not, but you get the drift???

There are published DV TRO cases that in part, were or are specifically based in part,  upon infidelity via cell phone data??  I believe I know most of the cases involving such antics but there will always be new ones coming out!!!   Here is the case most people know about: https://law.justia.com/cases/california/court-of-appeal/2018/a148482.html

WARNING AGAINST GIVING AWAY YOUR ACTUAL DNA INFORMATION:

https://www.jdsupra.com/legalnews/privacy-risks-of-recreational-dna-19997/

This is a dangerous concept because once such information is sold, it is very difficult to

gain it back???  People these days do many things without any thought of consequences.

There are usually only 2 reasons why anyone would NEED your DNA information and normally

no one can force you into it unless you are arrested.