....The best thing to do if accused of any "DV" TRO
is to immediately get legal help so that you
don't go down like a sinking ship
before you even get started.
The last thing most people need is a "DV" TRO on their record, even if they are not guilty of it--- it carries both a stigma (you beat up people or try to hurt them, etc), that you are not fit to watch or babysit children (age of kids will matter but especially babies) and you will be stuck with what is known as supervised visitation which you will likely not be able to afford, or will not want to afford. Further, the wait list is very long unless you plan to use a private agency which is quite expensive.
is willing to drop it-- that's fine--but most of those that drop
such charges tend to refile them...